Saturn is fixing to leave Libra for Scorpio, which will take whatever relationships survive to a deeper realm. I’m often given a sign of what to expect when planets change signs. Recently I worked with a client who got involved with a man who provided a crystalline example of someone whose way of relating to others is almost completely driven by pathology. I am no man-basher. I also have Libra and can readily see both sides of a story, but this situation was remarkable; it’s inspired me to write this.
Typically a couple meets. They get off on a decent foot and some time passes before their various pathologies come into play. Everything is great and then they start to trigger each other, basically.
How the couple fares from this point on, depends on how psychologically sophisticated they are and how willing they are to take responsibility for their own problems.
You can see how Saturn in Libra (hopefully) taught boundaries and how Saturn in Scorpio will build on this and pressure people to go deeper. This is the time to work (Saturn) with your subconscious (Scorpio), to pay dues for your own empowerment.
How pathologically driven are your relationships?