About a year ago I met a Scorpio man and it was love at first sight. As I walked into work we couldn’t stop staring at each other, there was an instant attraction that I just can’t explain. Little did I know that my Pisces friend was also falling head over heels for him and since she was the first to admit it, I kept my feelings hidden.
It wasn’t long before I found out that the guy liked me and not my friend, and he did everything possible to let me know. As much as I tried not to fall for him, I couldn’t resist. He did everything for me to talk to him and get to know him. Finally I agreed to go out with him one day and practically ended up in bed. When he kissed me I just couldn’t resist.
After that night we were still very much into each other but emotionally I closed up for I was extremely scared. We continued to go out but never did he ask me to be his girlfriend and this concerned me. Although I did begin to act different he stopped calling. We still talked but not long after, I left my job where we both worked and left to Hawaii for a couple of weeks, for a family vacation that was long planned. For a year I neither spoke to him or saw him… until recently where I saw him at a music show where his band performed.
He saw me first and couldn’t stop staring and smiling, the biggest smile I had ever seen. But he was with his band carrying equipment so we didn’t even speak; nevertheless we were both speechless. The rest of the night he looked rather confused shy and nervous. I couldn’t take it and left once again running away. There has not been a single day where I haven’t thought of him, he’s somewhat of an obsession. He currently has a girlfriend though I know they have problems and have broken up before. Should I pursue this or is this hopeless?
I looked at this man’s chart and I think you are dealing with a free agent here. He is so young I am not going to label him a “player”, but I think it would be wise for you to try to detach and think about who you are dealing rather than how you feel.
This man has obvious charisma. We see it in your story and we see it in his chart, with his stellium in Scorpio, part of a grand trine with his Moon in Cancer and Jupiter in Pisces.
And although he is only 21, I think he has figured this out at least to some extent. He plays in a band and if you keep your mouth shut, girls will dream you up… fantasize about you… and you will get all kinds of sex and various other sundries.
Now I don’t want to call him manipulative but he is putting that Scorpio tractor beam on you (and others no doubt) and then taking it off (withholding) – and next thing you know, he’s got you eating out of his hand. Are you getting pissed yet?
I think you will get pissed when you see he’s feeding off you and that’s cool because guess what? You have Venus, Mercury and Pluto in Scorpio yourself and you need to learn about these kinds of games. Don’t play them!
Well, you’re 19 so go ahead and experiment, who wouldn’t. But I think if you pay attention, you’ll find this method of operation ultimately leads you to nothing worth having.
I would say you met this man so you could learn about your own power… discover yourself. So use him right back, see? X-ray vision him because you are surely capable. Time to forget about him and see what you can do.