Women make women miserable more often than men do, though the women don’t realize it. This is a common scene as it unfolds:
-The man and women meet, they like each other and various things ensue. They have sex for example and they talk to each other.
-The man confides in the woman.
-The woman confides in the man… and also in her friend(s).
-The friends note the woman’s growing closeness with the man and consciously or otherwise feels threatened. Might she run off with the man?
-The man, feeling safe with the woman confides something that is honest but for some reason difficult for the woman to hear.
-The woman repeats what was said to her friend and the friend says, “you better get rid of that bastard – look what he did to you!”
What he really did is continue the relationship. He was confiding to start with and he was continuing to confide but you can see what happens here. It’s a cock-block. It makes it hard for the women to stay on track with the man and even harder to be happy with him. If you have no idea how else this might play, lemme tell you. Here is a supportive of your relationship remark from a friend:
“Sounds to me like he was telling you truth. You have been happy with this guy awhile so if you are thinking about throwing him back over one remark, you should probably think again…”
On that woman realizes, hey! Maybe the sky is not falling after all.
If you want to be happy with a man you have to run with women who are happy with a men because otherwise you are likely to play the above scenario over and over and over again. It’s as if the woman gets a new man on deck and the friend stands by with a tar covered brush, waiting for an opportunity to use it and if you’ve got someone like this in your life your chances of forming a successful, satisfying relationship with a man are almost non-existent. What you have instead is a friend who helps you through the misery she all but created and then you go on to the next prospect, wash, rinse, repeat!
And what about the man? He doesn’t know what the hell happened. He doesn’t know the woman has talked to her friends who dumped gallons of poison into the well. I think a lot women are freakishly unreasonable when it comes to men and if you have a friend who helps you stay this way, you are in big trouble and it comes down to the unconscious Mars.
Is the woman not attacking the man? I think she is, and very effectively. If you want to be happy with a man, spend time with women who are happy with theirs. You’ll be amazed at what rubs off.