“I don’t think it will help you much to study the synastry. He’s got his issues and you have yours. This is not a problem with the interaction. It’s personal. It’s in your natal chart…”
It’s common that a person look at the synastry between themselves and their lover to gain insight into their relationship. This can be a big help. But if you’re 40 years old and you have struggled in relationships most or all of your life, chances are good that the problems exist inside of you.
For example, if I am a control freak, then I am a control freak, regardless who I am control-freaking next to. I am not going to resolve my problems unless I look in the right place and ask the right questions.
It may jolt you to realize the problems you’re having are due to your own nature, but there is a big payoff.
For one thing, when you spend less time analyzing your partner, you free up time where you can enjoy them. This is no small thing!
When struggling in relationship, are you more likely to look at yourself or the interaction between you and the other person?
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