John Gottman who is a psychologist who wrote, The Mathematics of Marriage: Dynamic Nonlinear Models. He studied relationship in an effort to be able to predict who would divorce with very limited data. He came up with a super effective formula.
He claims he can can listen to a couple talk about anything, for one hour, then predict with 95% accuracy if they will be married or divorced within 15 years. If he listens for just 15 minutes, he can still predict this with 90% accuracy! He got so good at this, he found he could eavesdrop on a couple eating dinner in a restaurant and have a pretty good idea where they were headed.
Marriages have a sort of DNA. The way we relate to another is hardwired. In terms of astrology, the DNA of a relationship would be shown in the composite chart. If you do form a relationship, the composite chart is inescapable.
It’s interesting science is now making the same kind of claims astrologers are punished for. That is, that these things are predictable! I don’t know why this makes people so uncomfortable.
Personally, I’d just as soon have him listen to me talk to my lover and tell me in advance the relationship was going nowhere! That it was not going to satisfy! And if he said, “You two are very fortunate,” I would like that as well!
This is related, more from Gottman – How To Keep Love Once You Find It.
How do you feel about a guy being able to predict the future of your relationship after sharing lunch with you and your partner? What about an astrologer looking at a few charts and doing same?