I don’t know that I’d have chosen this. I feel it’s been forced upon me somehow and I’ll give you an example.
We hope to move into our bed and our bedroom sometime this weekend. We left our old bedroom in March. It’s almost August. Is this slow enough for ya?
At another time in my life, I might be irate over this. But I understand now, it makes little difference. We don’t plan on ever moving out of this bedroom. That is far more important than how long it takes us to move in!
That’s analogy for my new way processing information or making decisions. I take my time until answers trickle in. I move when it’s obvious to move.
I give this to Pluto’s transit through my 12th house. It’s not smart to speed through the inky darkness with no clue the depth of the water you’re submerged and/or floating in.
I think I have some people pissed off at me. I’m sorry but I don’t see an honest way around this. For example, I told one gal I didn’t feel well because guess what? I didn’t feel well.
I didn’t say anything else. I didn’t promise to feel better in X number of days, because I had no idea when I might feel better…or if! I need to feel good, to commit to what she wants me to do. Impossible, unless I were to lie. I’m not willing to lie.
If you know someone with Pluto (especially Pluto in Capricorn) transiting their 12th house, I would avoid prodding them along to where you want them to be, as if they’re a predictable cow. In short, life has become extraordinarily complex. You can have your expectations but I am a card player from way, WAY back. The first thing I learned was not to let a person rush my game.
This extends to choosing furniture and decorating the house. It’s far enough along, I’m not doing anything more until I’ve had a chance to live here awhile.
“When are you going to X, Elsa?”
Elsa shrugs. And it’s not because I don’t care, it’s because I care more than I ever have in my life, about everything.
Have you ever (dramatically) changed your speed, or seem this happen with someone close to you?
For more on Pluto’s transit of the 12th house, please click the tag.