As an example, consider a woman with a lot of Scorpio which is a magnetic sign. She can pull in anything she wants (yin) but instead she puts on galoshes goes out hunting a man. This is akin to putting your make-up on the back of your head instead of your face. This is just not how it’s done!
I argue all day about how it got this way but it’s irrelevant. What’s important for the woman who wants to fare well with men is that she play to her strengths. If she can learn to do this, she will quickly move through the hoards of women who can’t and won’t be successful.
Do you feel you have command of your power to attract what you want? I emphasize the last because if you can attract 7000 men who leave you when you want a man who stays, that doesn’t count does it?