Today I was working with a Pisces client with Venus in Pisces. She’s young and she’s got a good man with very good qualities who loves her. She has some Saturn stuff so suffers insecurities at times, like she can’t keep up. In reality she is as lovely as they come. I wrote:
“…I can tell you that over time you will absorb some of his principles and techniques. This is why it is so important you mind who you hang around with. You want to be around people who have good principles and techniques because you will wind up with them…”
Anyone with Venus mashed with Neptune (Venus in Pisces, Venus in the 12th, etc. ) should mind that for sure. Later I pulled up a thread on small business and wrote:
“My business has improved. Since Saturn has moved into Libra I see that relationships are everything and the agreement has to benefit both parties. I have been aligning closer with people who I feel have integrity and distancing myself from the others.”
As I was typing that I recalled a conversation I had with my Capricorn friend last week, the one who might die of codependency . She has a life full of people who are capable but who expect her to do everything for them.
I found myself telling her that I was pretty sure things were going to go down and she’d well advised to have people in her life who knew how to bounce and/or move on their own steam.
“There is no way you are going to be able to carry all these people on your back. Tell them now so they can make other arrangements and just remember these people aren’t going to do anything to help you. They’re trained otherwise. Really, just get rid of these people who drain you and have never given back in their life so you have room for people who show up the way you do…”
Can you relate?