I watch people and the style with which they approach their lives and have all my life. With experience in fashion, dance and teaching dance, and producing entertainment I have watched all of the signs live their lives and had so many confessions laid on me by those in my shows or those whom I’ve worked with or taught. One has to approach a person in the way that they respond to when you are producing them or doing choreography for them so I have learned a lot. Also, I have produced almost 150 fashion shows and worked the runway on plenty others. Visiting people in their homes from invitations which come from those you work with and being a very social person, an astrologer can learn a lot about the way Sun signs and other placements in charts play out. Here are some of my style observations.
Aries women will often think that fighting is a very important part of their relationships. I’ve met Aries who feel that if their relationship is not difficult it is not interesting! One Aries model I worked with, for example, had her fiancé cheat on her. Her first move was to leave him and call me sobbing that she couldn’t work and couldn’t do anything because of the heartbreak. She had left the home they had together and had no idea what to do. She was an Aries so she never bothered with makeup or nice clothing when not working the runway and often did rehearsals in bare feet which were beat up and dirty from walking barefoot all the time!
Her fiancé had earlier tried to kiss me when we were all out at “wrap” party after a show and I told her but she told me: “I believe you but I still love him.” She stayed with him after he tried to kiss me and she decided to stay with him even after catching him with another model she worked with. She felt that working on a relationship meant fighting and she told me that those things that were “hard work” were “worth it.”
Later she lost her children and her home to him and ended up paying him alimony after an ugly divorce. When divorcing this man some years later she was told by her attorney to tape her conversations with this man to use in court so she could prove he was abusive. Every tape she ever made was her yelling at him while he, too, taped her! She ended up losing her children because he, the judge decided, was the more emotionally stable parent.
Her home was one that was geared toward what her husband wanted in the way of art and electronics. Because her life was simple she didn’t care how it was decorated and needed help from people to know how to decorate her homes.
This woman has recently repeated this process, married a man she fought with, had two children with him, lost the home and her children and this time, has MS! She literally did it again but her beauty faded because of her disdain for taking good care of her assets.
Another great dancer I worked with who was Aries insisted on dancing jazz in bare feet before it was considered trendy. She, too, had beat up dirty feet that she danced on and slipped shoes over after dancing when she was done. She wore a basic black leotard with no tights and no bra or any under garment. She was a VERY talented dancer who though that the less clothing one wore the closer they were to the music. No decoration for her, either!
Aries are simple in their needs and often have the needs the of the person they love to define them. They are so tuned to themselves being basic energy that they latch onto others they love to find places to put their energy. Simple dressers who don’t care to put a lot into what they wear, they only dress if they absolutely have to and those Aries models arrived for the show with no makeup on, wet hair and bare feet or flip flops and shorts that were cut off and T. shirts for tops. They were transformed by the designer and makeup artist into these great creatures whom they would pour themselves into until they peeled the clothing off and washed off the makeup. I never met an Aries that didn’t want to wash off the makeup from a job as fast as possible! I have Aries in my chart and I am the same way. I have to wash my face when I get home and be devoid of any makeup until I go out again!
Watching my Aries friends build homes with people that they loved to fight with and end up having the perfect home for their partner but not for them became the norm. Watching my Aries friends have relationships with people they fought with was common and wishing they would go for peace was common as well.
Most of the fights sprang from insecurity or the Aries need to do their own thing and not be home for their family. The Aries women I knew were hard workers and saw their beauty as a job and not as something that defined them.
Gotta love them, the Aries needs to not be afraid to find out what peace means and what a loving relationship feels like. They also could go with a bit more dressing when they go out because we all improve with just a bit of beauty technique applied in our personal life!
My little Aries barefoot dancer friend ended up quitting the company and following her boyfriend to Europe where he wanted to be thus giving up her lead in many numbers and losing all her friends and family.
I love an Aries but their lifestyle is one that puzzles me even though I have it in my own chart!
Have you noticed common threads in the lives of your Aries friends or those with a lot of Aries in their chart? What are these common themes? How best can an Aries find real love? What advice would you give an Aries who is fighting with a partner often?