I have Pisces on the cusp of the 7th. Would you think that with that particular arrangement that you might attract or be attracted to dead or ghost relationships? It’s like trying to be friends with zombies or mannequins. They let go of the closeness a long time ago, but you keep hanging on from your end trying to breathe life into it, sometimes for years.
At one point you had a very close and sincere connection, you expect it to wake up and come back to life any minute – like if you let it go, that might be the end. It will just sink to the bottom of the ocean which it probably would and probably should have long ago since the other person isn’t trying to keep anything afloat.
Virgo Rising, yes people with Neptune associated with Venus or their 7th house routinely have relationships with what is essentially a figment of their imagination as the other person has left the building long ago.
As common, but inordinately difficult to see is the fact the Venus Neptune person is a figment themselves and in your case you’ve got a triple whammy:
Pisces on the 7th
Venus in the 12th (Pisces) house
Venus is square Neptune
What are your experiences with Venus Neptune types or if you have this aspect in your chart, how does it manifest?