I hear a person say they’ve never been loved from time to time. It’s an interesting topic and not necessarily painful.
Astrologically, I would give this situation or sentiment to Venus in aspect to Saturn in a natal chart. I’d also look at Venus in Capricorn, Saturn in the 7th and maybe the 2nd. Venus in the 10th might also be suspect but…
Having these aspects or placements in a chart does not mean you will never be loved. Clearly there are people who in fact, have never been loved but many people who make this claim have been loved. They may simply not register the love, recognize the love or be able to internalize the love.
I think this is pretty common and it’s not that hard to understand. Being a strong Saturn-type myself, I don’t internalize compliments. I am far more likely to internalize an insult and this phenomenon takes place of inside of me, independent of the actions or expressions of other people and there are other scenarios.
Some people cling to a notion like this as a way to define themselves as opposed to working to remedy the situation. Other people say no one loves them but neglect to mention, they don’t love anyone themselves.
Others keep people away as a defense. In this case, the lack of love is not something that happens to them but something they orchestrate or control (Saturn).
Has anyone ever told you that no one has ever loved them? What were your observations? If you are someone who feels you have never been loved, what do you make of it?