Do you have a chart full of trines? I do, for the most part. In contrast, my husband’s chart is jarring. It’s dominated by a T-square involving Mars and Saturn for one thing.
When we got together he warned me that his life had never been easy. He has always felt he was destined to suffer. He told me he would do his best to have his hardship not impact me but that it probably would. This was a sober conversation. He really wanted me to think it through.
I did think it through. I also noted that we had a composite grand cross. It was clear, astrologically that our relationship would pressure me. In fact, I could see I might actually be crushed.
I took the time to think about this, deeply. I talked to friends about it. I’ll tell you something about me. I like to have fun. Yes! I like to a good ol’ time. Should I do this? Should I trade my loopy, happy, serenity for a more austere life?
In the end, I chose to marry. I loved the man for one thing. It’s not something I felt I could or should escape. But I also felt the heavyweight life would be more rewarding overall.
Everything has manifested as predicted. I am happily married. I have no regrets.
Is you chart easy? Is it hard? Have you ever been involved in something like this?