The moon in your natal chart shows your emotional nature. If your moon squares your partner’s moon, your feelings about things can clash.
Moon square moon may not show itself that dramatically until and unless the couple decides to live together. At that point, they may find their concepts of what constitutes “homey and comfortable” are at odds.
Not to say this can’t be overcome. It can be overcome. There are plenty of happy couples with their moons squared.
As an example, take a Virgo moon square a Sagittarius moon. What if the Virgo moon is conjunct Jupiter. In that case, there would be emotional affinity; both people are restless.
Or maybe the one person has a Virgo moon but they also have a stellium in Sagittarius that includes Venus and Jupiter. This person would have no problem getting along with a person with their moon in Sagittarius.
The moon is associated with security. Some people get married to stay that way! They want to have children, a home and some security in life. If this is the goal, expectations tend to be more realistic. You’re a person. The other person is a person. Neither are perfect. You choose to work together.
Today, people want their partner to deliver, bliss and hot sex and total agreement or else! Or else they’re out the door! They rarely realize the challenge they pose to their partner.
If you bring astrology into it, you’re going to be loaded with ammo. There’s always going to be something you can point at to explain why your relationship failed. But what about love? Love cannot be reduced to an equation. What if you LOVE someone? What if you love someone whose moon squares your own?
What if you realized that you do LOVE the person and while your ideas of what’s comfy might differ, you become willing to sacrifice some of yours for the sake of theirs or vice versa or you both give a bit? The minute you do that, you (and your love) will grow
Compare that to the other option. My moon squares yours – I’m out of here. Then you run off and try to make it work with someone you don’t love, but whose moon trines yours.
Sorry, but there are legions of people who do this or something similar. I hate to tell you but it’s not that smart!
When you love someone and run into a problem, you can work it out. In doing so both parties benefit, greatly, especially over time.
Does your moon square your partner’s? How does is play out?