Are relationships more likely to break up, lack a soul connection, or at least feel that the two are not in sync with difficult moon synastry? These questions are becoming more important to me. How will someone and myself blend so to speak?
Do we look to combinations of the IC and the moon, emotional body for indications of being safe and comforted with another? And to what degree do the moon/IC aspects ( or chart signatures?) impact the way connections play out?
You’ve introduced so many elements, I don’t think there is a way to tie them all together and come up with a simple, definitive answer. Outside of the astrology, the terms you use are also difficult to define.
“Being in sync.”
“Feeling safe and comforted.”
If you asked ten people to describe the meaning of these things, they’d be all over the place. This may be the primary reason you’re struggling with this.
Also, I’m not sure the moon or the IC is involved, when it comes to syncing up with another person. That may be Mars (running together) or Mercury (timing or thinking).
You also mention, “breaking up”. People break up for a myriad of reasons, many of which have little or nothing to do with their moon or emotions. For example, they may just be bored!
In regards to moon to moon synastry in relationship, I can tell you what I’ve observed. The moon is personal. Hard aspects between the two moons in a partnership really show themselves when the people opt to live together. It’s a great help if the two moons are in compatible elements, even if they are not aspecting each other by degree. When the two moons clash, it’s much harder to make a home. The people differ on what constitutes a “nest”.
This suggests, if you feel ill at ease on a date with someone, you can imagine the problems, should you try to live with them.
Remember the moon represents family…what’s familiar to you. If someone’s moon is conjunct your IC, you’re going to relate to that person. You probably will feel an emotional connection.
This does not mean a person wants an emotional connection. There are legions of people out there who want to have sex and that’s it. So the connection could actually drive them away!
I’m sorry I don’t have neat answer to your question, but I hope this helps you in other ways.
What’s your experience with the moon or IC in synastry?
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