This is in adjunct to the discussion that cropped up on the back of Cock Blocking / Happiness post. You can read the details in the comments but fact is I get hit on by men virtually every single day.
This is fairly stunning to me seeing as I write about my love and devotion to a man on a daily basis but it is no surprise to the solider at all. He explains men do this… they just want to piss on another man’s tree.
(swearing and violence below the break)
Hearing this, I agree which makes the attempt to penetrate our relationship very offensive as you see it is about a conquest and nothing more. I mean, they don’t want me, personally. They want someone else’s woman which essentially makes me a piece of meat.
The soldier and I talk about this at times especially lately as it’s a problem that is growing…
“I am surprised they mess with your woman,” I said. “You would think they would go after the wife of of someone a lot weaker. I mean, you kill people for Godsakes. Seems to me a man would go after any woman but yours, they could wind up dead.”
He laughed. “Well, they think I’m a pussy, P. Yep, that’s what they think and that’s why the do it. They think they’re better than me, they think they’re smarter than me, they think I am a piece of shit and they can take and have my woman. That’s it, P. They do it because they think I’m a pussy.”
“That’s hard to believe.”
“It is not hard to believe. I’ve never met a man in my life who didn’t underestimate me, it’s the most common thing in the world. Yeah, they underestimate me right up until I get up next to them and start snappin’ bones like twigs. It’s right about then they say, uh oh, this motherfucker might not be such a pussy after all. I might have gotten myself into some trouble here…”
miss mentioned the phenomena of how men put on a wedding ring and women start hitting on them.
What do you make of this? What have you observed.