The Mars Neptune conjunction is hard to read. A person might be inspired to lead… or they may avoid conflict.
Imagining taking action and taking action are not the same thing. You may have to act (Mars) on faith (Neptune).
Mars with Neptune can also describe – Deception With Malice.
Gaslighting in some form is not only possible, it’s likely. I’m engaged in this myself at this time and could be considered the perp of all things.
To understand, think of the hidden (Neptune) attacks (Mars) on websites that occur every day, around the clock. There are “brute force” attacks but many challenges to breech or undermine my website are sneaky and insidious. I’m talking about being “groomed” in the worst sense of that word.
Then when I catch on and toss the person overboard and they cry victim! I get to be the abuser!
What do you know about Mars conjunct Neptune?