So here is my other love tip from Taurus, this one I got off, Vidroid.
Vid’s best friend is an Aquarian boy who dumps him every 8-10 days. The boys were in the same class and spent the afternoon and early evenings at one house or the other at least 5 times a week but then every once in awhile, Vid would go to school and find his friend no longer interested.
The rejection would be hard and fast and always, always unexpected. The kid would tell him, “I don’t like you anymore,” and then turn and take off to ignore him and play with other kids. Vid would be devastated. This happened 3 or 4 times. Each time the ignoring would go on for 3 or 4 days and Mom started to get pissed off.
Fourth time this happened we were walking home from the bus stop, Vid had his head down and I told him, “Look. You know he’s going to be back. This is what he does, he always comes back but if you are getting sick of this you can always dump him and I wouldn’t blame you if you did. You’ll find another friend. Matter of fact you’d be able to replace him a lot easier than he is going to be able to replace you because most people would not put up with this…”
Well he was sick of it but he made it clear that painful as it was, he was going to remain loyal and wait on his friend and respecting his decision, I tried to lighten the mood.
“Well, I wouldn’t take it too hard. He’s an Aquarian, you know. They are often quirky and he’s like that,” I said shrugging.
“Yeah,” said Vidroid. “He’s just a quirky Aquarian…”
Now as it happens the quirky Aquarian has Moon Saturn conjunct in Aries. That’s no fun so I have some sympathy for this kid. He is bound to be acting something out. Rejecting Vid, as he has been rejected himself for example.
Further, Vid has his Jupiter and Mercury conjunct that Moon Saturn, so you know Vid cheers him up so what the hell? Quit dumping your best friend, ya freak! But here’s the point:
Vid has stuck by his friend and the quirky Aquarian has become less quirky over time. He still does what he does but not as frequently. The friendship is very strong at this point, they have seen each other almost daily since school got out for 6-8 hours at a clip and I got to thinking something.
A lot of people don’t give their friends or lovers time like this, do they? Time to figure it out that is.
I suspect Vid and quirky Aquarian may wind up friends for life but this never would have happened had he not made the decision to stand by and give him time to grow. And I have learned a lot watching this. So many people throw people back at the first sign of trouble and it’s pretty obvious what that’ll get you.
On the flip, so many problems wind up solving themselves if only you’ll let them.
Are you patient with your friends and lovers?