I’m a 22-year-old Cancer woman who seems to be hopelessly attracted to Fire signs. Usually they are Aries, but actually my most serious attraction is a Sagittarian friend of mine.
We’ve been friends online for at least seven and a half years. Over the last few years, it’s turned more serious; he had a bit of a revelation that makes him think that I’m “the one”. Within the next year, he wants to both meet me and move nearby.
I am very attracted to him. Neither of us is willing to grow apart just because we kept it an “online thing”. His belief is that even if we don’t end up together, we’ll always have our fantastic friendship to fall back on. At the same time, I don’t want to take something that is great online and risk losing it totally.
Will meeting him in person possibly ruin our friendship?
I think you may be surprised to learn you’re a Sagittarian yourself. Uh huh. You have Moon, Jupiter, Uranus and Neptune in Sadge. That’s a lot of Sadge! So no wonder you’re drawn to this man – who also has four planets in the sign. Isn’t that funny? I think it is. You both have major planets in Virgo as well. Bottom line: you guys are from same TRIBE.
But can there be a workable partnership?
When I first read your post, I thought not. I figured a relationship that thrived for this long with this degree of space would be doomed in closer quarters. But looking at the charts changed my mind. I tend to agree with your friend.
I think the two of you could very well make it work. You just have to respect your Sadge. For example, neither of you can tolerate being tied down, and you both need to “leave”. First he goes, and then you go. Sometimes you go together. The important thing is you keep it moving. Because how long do wild horses stay in one place?
Nikki Giovanni says, “We love because it’s the only true adventure.”
I can’t add to that.
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