It’s been a long time since we talked about cheating; which in itself is interesting as it used to come up a lot. I’m the one driving here, so I guess it’s my fault. In whatever case, I want to bring it up today for a fresh look.
I’m prompted in part by my recent experience working with two married women who we cheated on. Both of them wanted to stay in their marriage from day one. I’m talking about, zero waffling. I don’t think this is very common though that may be changing.
It’s not that marriages don’t survive an affair. They most definitely do, but the fact this is going to happen is rarely apparent from the get go. The clarity on the women’s part was amazing. I’m talkin’ full blown, Loretta, You Ain’t Woman Enough To Take My Man! Both of them flew into action.
What do you think about this? Is is a fluke? Or are attitudes changing?
If you feel attitudes are changing, do you have any idea why?
If your spouse cheated, would you try to save your marriage?