I’ve been talking to a Libra guy online for the last 3 months. He hasn’t asked me out. He messages me then ignores me. Whenever I get frustrated I stop replying to his messages and he comes back in a flash, saying he was busy. He has a lot of other female friends but not dating anyone. I suspect he likes playing games and I don’t want to be taken for a fool. But I like him and don’t want to be too perfectionist. What do I do?
This is a really tough question because there are just so many ways to approach it. I’ll start with the obvious: After 3 months of back and forth and no date I am pretty sure that WYSIWYG (What You See Is What You Get) with this guy so if that answers your questions you can stop right here. But you also asked, “What do I do?” and I have some suggestions.
First, you do not seem very comfortable just being and this is worth taking a look at. You are second guessing yourself, apparently afraid to make a mistake. While I can appreciate what drives this kind of behavior, people do sense this kind of thing and often times it leads them to treating you exactly as this Libra man has been treating you. If you want a frame around it, my friend (and Pisces) satori calls it, “How little will you take?” She means the one person gives the other person the bare minimum it requires to keep them in the relationship which is what this guy has done with you. So here is a better tack…
Take some advice from another Pisces – my sister – who informed me some years ago that when you have the right man, you can do anything you want. “Including starting your period on your white dress,” she added and this became the tag line.
Now if you wonder if this is in fact the case, I urge you to ask any man on this planet and they will tell you my sister is correct. So armed with this information, it seems to me you have the option of doing a lot less worrying about making mistakes with this guy or any other and I hope like hell you take it.