The old saying goes, “If you love someone, set them free”. But when that someone is bound tightly to your heart, setting them free feels like cutting off a piece of yourself.
There is a man I can’t get out of my head and my heart. I don’t know if I’m stubborn and refusing to accept that what’s finished is finished… or if what I feel is really true and should be held on to.
I no longer know what to feel. Can you please give me some advice?
I looked at this guy’s chart. The two of you have an intense connection and I doubt he’s gone, gone. He’s got a ton of Sagittarius and they do tend to come back if you’ll just them go. But that doesn’t mean he’ll come back to stay. Because he’s got all this Sadge and he is going to travel. He has too, in order to feel vitally alive.
So where does that leave you? Well, you have Venus conjunct Neptune in Sagittarius (so does he!) which is very high-minded, philosophical and idealistic in love matters. And look at you. You’re basically “giving it to God” which is totally appropriate.
But what about your five planets in Libra? Uh oh. Libra wants to be partnered!! The more Libra, the stronger the desire and you are off the charts in this regard. Your needs cannot and should not be denied, so this is my advice:
Go get another man. Let the pony (I mean the Sadge) go. He’ll be back, but never mind that. Let yourself love him in an ethereal way. Do you understand? Let him live in your heart… you will always love him. But go get yourself someone who can be in a relationship with you – because this is what you want and need to feel energized and alive.
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