I met a Scorpio man about 4 years ago; he lives quite far from me so we kept in touch on and off via phone. We talk, get on well and then I don’t hear from him. He got in touch again recently and I went to see him; we’ve talked on the phone, and again we get on well. But now he’s backed off again. I suggested we meet again and on the phone he was interested but now he’s backed off and I’ve just left him to have his space.
I know that there’s an ex-girlfriend who is still interested in him, although he’s adamant that it’s over. Should I contact him? Should I wait to see if he gets in contact again? Or should I confront him? Or am I best to just forget him entirely? I’m not really sure what is the best approach to take?
I would let him go. Scorpio has energy and when interested in you, they put their energy on you and it is unmistakable. Besides living at a distance, you have known this man for four years and it does not sound like he has ever been focused on you.
I don’t see there is anything to confront. Just take it as being two entities that met and had a minor exchange. Then release him and your thoughts of him because I don’t think anything will ever come of this.
If you want a visual, just imagine that you are caught on his hook but he is not caught on yours – so dig that thing out of your mouth, okay?