I’ve lived a very humble life for the most part. I had my son as a teen, and I worked while going to school to get college educated…the result is I’ve worked myself into a position that is quite impressive within my company after 28 years. The one thing that still eludes me is love… I know I have walls up because of my painful past. I’m hard to get to know (scorpio rising). That said, I have Uranus conjunct my Venus coming up in May-Sept and I’m wondering if that could be a breakthrough for me? Is there hope for me in love?
Of course there is hope!. But I don’t think one transit is going solve this. Transit open doors. It’s our job to push through those doors, to go beyond where we are today.
There are keys as to what’s causing your problem in your short note. You’re holding onto a painful past? If this is preventing you from relating to others, it’s up to you to let go. Same with being hard to get to know. Is there something you could do to make it easier?
You want a breakthrough but you need a breakout. You’ve got to breakout of your relationship pattern if you want a new result.
The Uranus transit to Venus will provide you a chance to reinvent how you relate to others. Maybe you’ll do this or maybe you won’t. But you’re not actually unlucky in love. You have a 7th house Taurus moon. You may just be stubborn!
Do you feel you are unlucky in love? What’s your evidence?
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