I have a high tolerance for strife in relationship. My husband has a similar tolerance.
Vedic astrologers are on to this. Mars in the 7th house in the Vedic system is considered bad for marriage but there is remedy. The remedy is to marry someone with the same affliction!
It sounds like hocus-pocus until you see it work. If you like to battle or challenge or be challenged, it makes sense you find someone who likes same?
We shy away from characterizing anything as an “affliction” in modern western astrology but according to a poll, only twelve percent of people acknowledge they like to spar in their relationships. When seen in this light, it is an “affliction” to run around fighting all over the place; challenging the partner, when so many find it distasteful.
It’s worth noting that people are jarred! So if you happen to like a good fight now and then you may as well avoid those who don’t for the good of all parties.
For the record, I think the twelve percent figure is low. Mars in Libra is similar. Mars aspecting Venus can manifest this way as well and don’t forget Venus in Aries!
Do you enjoy sparring with your partner? How do you feel this?