It may be impossible for you to get someone else to do something! But if you’re working with your own chart, your own life and your own behavior, you can attain things you’re never managed before (like a relationship). It’s not hopeless!
Matter of fact, often long term problems are solved very easily with the slightest adjustment. Do you Expedia changed one data field on their site and earned an extra 12 million dollars? Phenomena like this exists in nature and what is your life if not nature?
It’s possible to make a small change in your behavior or your attitude or your ideas and see problems that have dogged you for years, absolutely unravel before your eyes.
Do you believe you can overcome your problems?