I had a gal in one of my classes who readily attracted partners. There were numerous indicators of this in her chart.
“First, it’s not fair is it? There are people out there who are like this. If you date one of them, break up and wish they’d never find another partner – you’re going to want to stay away from with this quality…”
Here’s the question: would you date or marry someone who attracted people in droves?
I suspect that many would not. They just wouldn’t want to feel insecure all the time. If I am right it supports the idea that every gift is a curse in exact proportion.
Are you a person who attracts a lot of partners? Do you think it costs you?