I have been in a relationship with a guy who was my colleague for 4 months. He is a very nice and caring person. I felt very loved. We’re really into each other.
He wanted his parent’s approval to marry me. But his parents are not allowing him to do so since we belong to two different religions. They are even threatening they will commit suicide if he marries me. He is very depressed and broken.
Now he is asking me to forget everything as his parents are blackmailing him emotionally. I want this relationship to work out. I really want him to stay.
Please tell me we will be able to marry each other ?
I am sorry. I realize you are in a lot of pain, but I don’t think you have a future with this man. As bad as you feel, I’m glad you found out early on, that his parents were not going to accept you.
The rejection is not personal. They’re going to reject any potential daughter-in-law who is not of their religion.
I agree he’s being emotionally blackmailed, but it doesn’t really matter. He’s made his choice and it’s probably the right choice. I say that because if you were to marry this man, his parents would set out to destroy you.
This man has a Libra Moon. I’m sure he wants peace in his family. He needs (Moon) to get along with them (Libra). He also has a has a stellium in Scorpio and I think he can read the writing on the wall.
I appreciate that you’re in agony, but I feel you’ve got to take this loss. If this were truly the right man for you, the door would be open. As it is, the door is closed. He’s the one who closed it. You’ve no choice but to respect his decision. I’m sorry.
Have you ever been rejected by your lover’s family?