I had a gal with a stellium in Aries ask me how the stellium in Capricorn would affect her. She was expecting to get squashed. Er… not really. I addressed her question here:
On the same day, I was working with gal with Libra in her chart. She’s trying to keep her marriage together. I’ve been working with her for a year.
This gal has really applied herself. She’s made an honest and tremendous effort to become more aware of what marriage really is. She’s worked (Saturn/Capricorn) to take responsibility for her shadow (Pluto) at is plays in her marriage (Libra). This has been a boon for her. She’s come to understand deeply, her husband’s experience of their relationship is different from what she imagined or assumed.
It’s a humbling thing to find out but the knowledge is worth it’s weight in gold. She is a completely different person at this point. She’s educated herself and now stands with a Master’s degree in relationships.
Now I don’t know if her marriage will be ultimately be saved. It what she wants so I want it for her but I told her something, radical and factual…
If her marriage does fail, she will be okay. She will retain her degree, her mature outlook and the integrity she’s earned via her hard work. She is now a woman, completely able and equipped to be a loyal, committed (Saturn) partner (Libra) til death do we part (Pluto).
If you have Libra and you’re struggling with the planets Capricorn, work to respond to the pressure to grow up and/or be more realistic, not just about the limits of your partner but your own limits as well.
What Libra doesn’t want wisdom in the field of relationships? Now is your chance!
This is a Venus/Saturn exchange, by the way. If you struggle with love being real, I’ve addressed this in depth in this workshop.