I had a client who was trying to partner with a challenging woman. Her chart provided insight…
“You can have security with a person like this when you realize that you’ve cracked their code and that not many are likely to be able to. They won’t necessarily care enough to try…”
I learned this from my husband. He believed we were meant to be together and he said he’d do everything in his power to bring it about. He also said, if he couldn’t do it, he didn’t think anyone else would fare any better.
It was not a remark on my being a disaster. I was blogging at the time. He thought my purpose might be to do exactly what I am doing now, rather than to be someone’s wife.
He loved me and he took the time to study me in depth. He determined what I needed to be happy. He also determined that he had these things to offer so he gave them to me.
He does worry about me leaving him because come on. Who else is going to care enough to invest the time to crack my code? I am well known to be trouble.
Do you have a deep understanding of what your lover wants and needs?