I was talking to my friend, Ben, this weekend. We’ve known each other for 35 years or so. He was recalling a conversation he had with someone he knows…
“They you are. You’re moaning away. You’re moaning and moaning and I understand. You want to moan away and you’re welcome to do it. Be self-indulging. Moan, to your heart’s content! But call me, when you actually want to do something about the problem. Call me when you want to fix it and. Until then, go moan away, elsewhere. I just can’t stand it anymore.”
Ben is a Scorpio who has these great boundaries.
The next day, I asked my husband (Taurus, with a Scorpio moon) how people tended to wind up in the exact same situation they tried to escape… ”
Change is hard,” he said. “You have to work to change yourself, even the least bit. It’s nowhere near easy. This is why people tend to avoid it. You’ve basically got to kick your own ass to do it and most people want no part of that…”
I’m putting this out here so others can hitchhike. Uranus is headed for Taurus – this a great time to break free from your rut.
Have you ever changed something about yourself? I’m talking about permanent change. What was it? How did you do it? Was it hard?