With Saturn (control) opposing Neptune (release) in the sky right now, these two themes pop up everywhere. I just had one of the control freaks in my life email me an itemized list of what they were going to do between now and the first of the year.
Though most everything on the list impacts me directly, I was not asked what I wanted or how I felt about any of it. There was a day I would have fought about this, however things change.
I emailed back, “Okay.” I decided to allow this other person set all the structure leaving me to just flow around it. It felt good. So much better than trying to fight for an inch of gain when none of it matters anyway.
It reminds me of when those thieves stole all my music. (Unrelenting Pain and Loss… Pluto transit) It may not be such a bad idea to allow people who need control that bad, to just have it.
How do you handle the control freak in your life?