Some people are not comfortable with anger of any kind. They’ll do anything in the world but air a grievance. It’s the seething that actually bothers me.
Mars rules anger and the first house. It is assertive. I was taught to never let my Mars energy back on me. When Mars is deprives of an outlet, it perverts.
With Mars in Libra I truly (9th house) want to be polite so I have a real struggle. I do get angry and I feel my anger justified. I think it’s acceptable to express my anger in no uncertain terms. This is appalling to some. Due that same Libra placement, I can see their point!
I would rather NOT see their point. My husband has Aries . He does NOT see their point and I’m jealous.
How comfortable are you with anger, yours and/or theirs? Where is your Mars?