Often times, the man is completely satisfied with the relationship the way it is. He’s happy with his life so there is no impetus for him to change. He has what he has and he offers what he offers. It becomes a question of whether you can be satisfied with what is offered.
A person has control of their energy. They give you A, B, C and D.
You want A, B, C and D, plus E, F, G and H. So what are you going to do?
I recently had a situation like this. It’s as if the person wanted $10. I only had $5.
The deal fell through because there was no way to cover that gap.