My hubby is or has been looking to have an affair. He takes sex stimulants to arouse himself. He becomes a sex fiend and can go on sexually for one or two hours, which I enjoy immensely. I do give in to his requests occasionally just so my needs are met; then afterwards he goes online searching for sexual encounters in our area as well as bisexual.
Even though I’ve caught him many times, he either acts stupid, doesn’t know who is sending him the sites’ info, or tries to put it back in my lap when I don’t give him the sex he craves right then and there. Or lies straight to my face and states he won’t do it anymore. But he still does.
He’s used my debit card to purchase or buy sexual stuff without my consent, then acts stupid when called on about it. Is he purposely trying to hurt me this bad? This and his constant lying are his only faults. Other then these issues, he’s great! He’s 43, I’m 48, my second marriage, his first.
No. I don’t think your husband is purposely trying to hurt you. As a matter of fact, I don’t think he’s thinking about you at all. Go back up and read your post. I see no evidence he is thinking of anyone but himself, do you?
I think you are married to a sexually addicted narcissistic thief. But you say he’s “great” so how can I argue that?
You have Venus and Mars in Aquarius yourself. So maybe this experimental, open, sex/love relationship is just right for you. Maybe it’s interesting for you to see how far out he’ll go. And you are the only one who can decide that, but no… what he is doing is not personal to you. As a matter of fact, I can’t see how it could possibly be less personal to you.