I’ve been married to my husband for the past 7 years, and I’m bored out of my mind. I just don’t think we have much in common. I wonder if we ever really did. Maybe we just got married because of our child?
My husband says that I am his world, and that he worships the ground I walk on. But I’m just so restless I can’t hardly stand it. And on top of all of this: I recently met a guy that seems so wonderful, and I feel a real connection with him.
I don’t want to make an unwise decision here. Any advice?
Bored is bored. I hate to say it, but once you’re bored with someone… the situation rarely improves. Not that I think jumping in bed with this new guy is such a good idea.
Astrologically, it’s crunch time as far as your marriage goes. Saturn will be transiting your seventh house (marriage) for the next two years. If your partnership is not real – if it does not support you – then it will very likely end in this time frame. You will simply feel pressured until you do something.
On the other hand, if your marriage is real, than this will be just as obvious. Instead of finding your way out, you’ll find yourself held there and made to work out the problems.
The Saturn transit is all about commitment. Either make one, or if you can’t, then you’re obligated to do the right thing and leave the marriage. For both your sakes! For your growth. But I have to warn you: with Saturn transiting the seventh, if you skip off and play with the new guy, you will not get away with it. In fact, you’ll be hit by the karma ball so fast, it’ll knock your block off.
But this is not to say you aren’t going to go this route. You’re achin’ for a change and there he is.
You don’t have to sacrifice your happiness just because your husband worships you but do have to act with integrity. This is the essence of Saturn in the seventh house. It’s about having integrity in your relationships. So don’t lie, and don’t cheat. Don’t tell someone you love them if you don’t. Basically, do the right thing. That’s the standard and as long as you meet it you’re going to be fine.