I’m not talking about women in their 20’s. I am talking about women in their 30’s and 40’s and 50’s.
I know that sometimes a woman will get involved with a mn who is not that great. But other times I wonder if the woman undermines her friend’s new relationship, because she’s afraid the gal will partner and leave her behind.
When two single women are friends and one marries, the other often is left behind. Priorities change. The women might have prowled together and when one partners, they lose that connection.
But other times, the friend is left behind, because she can’t or won’t stop bad-mouthing the man that her friend has grown to love.
I think women who are fixed (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius) don’t have many problems with this. No one is going to steer them off a course they choose.
But if a woman has Libra (struggles to decide) or Virgo (tends to worry) or if she is one of the other mutable signs, Gemini, Sagittarius or Pisces, then friends like this can have a enormous effect and it’s not always positive.
Do you have a friend, motivated to keep you single?
pictured – Edvard Munch, Jealousy (1895)