I’m dating an Aquarius right now. We met back in high school and remained friends till 4 years ago when things between us kinda grew. It was a fast and very rocky start. We always fought and argued and it was a very, very difficult time for me. Eventually things started to fall into place and we’ve come a long way.
We’ve been doing great, but we fall into our ruts every couple of months. As of lately however, I’ve been feeling really insecure. I know he loves me but I’m still scared that he might be doing something. I’ve also been stressed out because my grandfather is ill and I think that may be one of the reasons I’ve been insecure. Stress = less self esteem. This has led me to become ‘needy’ as he puts it and it has caused some arguments. We’ve spoken about marriage, not yet engaged, but we’re planning on our futures together.
During the first year of our relationship, I went to a fortune teller who told me he wasn’t the one for me. I guess I wanted to see if things have changed and what our future will hold. What is my love forecast – our love forecast? Is he the one for me? Will we get married and if so, when? What is our future together?
Thank you. I really appreciate your help and advice.
Fortune tellers don’t get to decide what your future is; you do. They also do not get to judge which man is “the one” for you.
And further, there are billions of people on this planet. You could conceivably marry any single one of them and if you did, then they’d be “the one”. So if there is but one thing you take from this blog, I hope you will erase the fortune teller’s words from your psyche because they are foolish, frivolous and meaningless.
Now how about some facts? Fact is, you have a mixed bag with this guy. There are obvious differences. He’s an Aquarian with Venus in Aquarius and does not like clinging all that much. You have a Capricorn Moon and need to be reassured of your worthiness and these things don’t really speak to each other so well.
On the other hand, with Saturn squaring his Sun and Moon, I imagine he “detaches” as a defense against his own feelings of insecurity. So you see the plot thickens! But here’s the thing:
There is no “the one”. It you pick “this one” you will deal with certain issues. The space/needy issue for sure. And the fact you are both pretty serious characters.
And if you pick another one, you will deal with another set of issues. So I think what you are doing is asking the wrong question.
The question should not be. “Is this the one?” The question should be, “Am I happy?” Because at the core of this, you are afraid you are making a mistake. But if you go with what is true in your heart and in your soul, you will never make a mistake.