Venus in aspect with Neptune (also applies to Venus in Pisces, or Venus in the 12th) gives dreamy ethereal heavenly love. I write from experience!
Venus Neptune fantasizes love and is able to temporarily create heaven on earth in relationship. There is an abundance of faith, and an aversion to reality in love. They do not see their love, or the beloved as something or someone down to earth or REAL. Rather, what they are involved in is otherworldly, specially blessed, heavenly and so forth. Their love is ethereal and dreamy and pure and hoo-boy is it ever FETCHING.
Venus Neptune tantalizes…
Come hither and all your pain and sins will be washed away.
They mean it, and they deliver the goods too.
Bring me your tired, your poor…
The illusion can only be held up so long and then the veil drops. Inevitably, this occurs because it is smoke and mirrors and delusion and self delusion and really really really great UN-real love on deck.
Everyone knows someone like this. They dial you up and tell you they have just met the be-all-end-all man/woman of their dreams. You have heard this before, but you listen and they go on and on about the new nirvana they live in. How after all their struggles in love, all the sacrifices they have made – they cannot believe it, but their sweet reward in on the scene in the form of Mr/s X, who they plan to live with, in bliss forever.
They have done it! They’ve found the holy grail, the key to heaven, a holy relationship, something others could not possibly understand. They are drunk with love. They worship the beloved and project superhuman qualities onto them. They build them up, pump them up, while simultaneously ignoring and erasing away any sign that the beloved is a flawed human being.
You shake your head because you KNOW that this person will be gone in a few weeks and sure enough, here is the next phone call.
“That ()(*&*^%^ stole my money/cheated on me/was married…” etc. etc.
Okay, the Venus Neptune person does not see this worth a damn. Even if they DO see it, they forget that they saw it within a week or a month because the thrust here is to reach nirvana and NOT to find out that NIRVANA does not exist.
Men fart? Women throw their clothes on the floor?
Back at the love nest, what happens is the beloved cannot possibly live up to the ideal of the Venus Neptune person, so they act like a normal man or woman and RUIN EVERYTHING.
Often the person the Venus Neptune partner has thrown on a pedestal is nowhere near worthy of being on one. They are not even an AVERAGE or COMMON guy/gal. In fact they are WORSE than average and so you can see how it is heady stuff for the partner.
Here is this lying cheatin’ jerk and no one can stand the SOB. But Venus Neptune comes along as savior and is going to wash them up. They can’t see the flaws that are blatantly obvious to the non-deluded.
The partner often thinks, I don’t know what drug this person is on, but I am going to make hay while the sun shines, which sees the Venus Neptune person used to some degree. When this scenario forms Venus Neptune fights to remain blissfully ignorant.
Tell Venus Neptune “I don’t think that guy in jail that you are bringing cigarettes to 3 X a week is really your soul mate” and just watch ’em get cranky and duck and dodge.
Tell em, “Uh…. that guy is married and not only cheating on his wife with you, but also with X and Y and Z,” and get the same reaction and result.
Venus Neptune is not interested in facts and reality. There is too much invested so the illusion is held up and held onto as long a possible which is often an astoundingly long time to the outside observer.
See, Venus Neptune is high and prefers to stay that way so if you continue to wag reality in their face, they will be rid of you – a troublemaker who cannot possibly understand.
Know anyone like this? Are you someone like this?