For a client…
“You and this gal are a lot alike in that you both have Aries with quite a bit of water (emotion – your Pisces and her Cancer). This combination is hard to reconcile, internally. You want both calmness and excitement and challenge.
This may not be exactly conscious. If you’re given, “a bird in the hand” as they say, you look for challenge. If you’re all fired up with a challenge, you look for peace or nurturing…”
It’s similar if you have a Water Sun and a Fire Moon.
This is not to say there are not ways these energies can work together. But understanding this basic stuff can take you a very long way.
Sound familiar? Do you have a Fire/Water combo in your chart?