Fatal Flaw In Love

oscarYesterday, I came across a phrase, I loved. A person was said to be, “drawn to trash”.  This was in regard to their relationship choices.

I thought it was funny and true.  What are you to do, when trash is your fetish?

Everyone knows someone like this.  They hone right in on garbage.  It’s as reliable as it is tragic.

I can’t think of anyone, off the top of my head, who had but overcome this affliction.  We may see it in ourselves, in our friends, or in the news, with celebrities.

Are you attracted to trash?
Do you know someone who is?
Have you known someone to overcome their attraction?
What’s the astrology?

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Fatal Flaw In Love — 13 Comments

  1. My daughters say that I’m drawn to thugs! (including dear old dad) lol! I sometimes think they are correct, however since their observation, I now pay closer attention to thug or not to thug!

  2. its a phsychological habit of people that have not had a proper childhood, instead had to take care of younger siblings and denied their own needs. I am struggling to do for me me me after a lifetime of caring for people, children, etc. I’m still a caretaker, and trying to change that….

  3. I know of a woman who has an 11H Scorpio Pluto squaring her 8H Leo Venus. She loves dramatic intimate relationships and she stalks past partners via Facebook.

  4. yeah i am. but not really. well i used to be, but i dont regret it, if they had turned out not into criminals and drug addicts. I dont mind an addict, who can control their addictions. I have no clue, but i dont really like a “perfect” person. so i guess in the middle.I really am more disgusted by a superior type perfect person. cause they look down on trash and i dont like those types. lol like who are you to be so superior?

  5. Lilith in 7th house in Pisces here.
    Drawn exclusively to emotionally unavailable/brooding/unsure of themselves/selfish partners.
    If I ever overcome it, will share.

  6. Oh sure, show me the worst guy in the room and I am all over him like white on rice. Also helps that I am low-hanging fruit. Reminds me of my favorite Seinfeld episode: George laments that everything he does, every decision he makes is fundamentally wrong and that his life is the opposite of what he wanted it to be. Jerry tells him if his instincts are faulty, to try doing the opposite. It’s classic!

  7. Ha, hello me!

    But Elsa… Trash is so fascinating! Just think what you can make of it! Maybe turn it into gold!


    Gah… I might be immature and a commitment phobe, but I attract men with Chiron in Taurus like me (On Algol of all shitty placements) – and then they expect me to heal them on their self worth by ‘taking’ mine.
    Or so it has been often.

    So with Moon in Libra in the 8th house in square to Mars, I seem to attract immature and/or angry Men with mother issues. It has not improved that much or changed that much. I seem also to attract or be drawn to the sexually inexperienced. The trash, right? Transmuting sexual energy into gold…. But if their moon is on my Chiron/Algol I have one hell of a show on my hands. *shudders*

    • Some people are well aware and they just like what they like.

      I understand this. People are always trying to dress me up and I’m just not interested. I don’t care how good I could look. It’s not my goal and really, this is no different. 🙂

  8. It’s an ego boost to lovers of “trash” to feel superior as they tolerate and work on transforming the person. Or low self esteem makes them feel they aren’t worthy of a “together” person. Caring is great if you set your boundaries firmly at the start.

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