When you have a long loveless dry spell, it’s only logical that after awhile you think this will never happen for you. I came to this conclusion myself at one point, and I lived in total acceptance of this fact for a number of years. I saw that others experienced true love in their life and I just thought I would be doing something else. I thought I had some other calling or purpose, I guess. I turned out to be wrong and there are a lot of stories out there like mine.
They say you find love when you’re not looking for it. I think it’s truer to say that love finds you. I also think that many things we call “love” are not love at all. Things like power struggles, sport and pain and drama. These things may be overvalued. They certainly distract a person and fill up their life. If you’re obsessed with stuff like this, I don’t know that you would even recognize love, if it lived next door.
I’ve witnessed many people fall in love, in my line of work. It transforms them. The one thing they have in common is the willingness to leave one station in life and progress to the next.
What do see or believe about falling in love? Where is your Venus?