Timing In Astrology And A Visit To The Cemetery In Italy regarding the timing of transits:writes on
“It rarely works for me, for transits. There were a few exceptions, like my Saturn return and when Uranus trampled all over my Sun in 7, but aside from that, I just don’t see it.”
Hans – That is interesting. I can generally see it in another person’s life but it’s difficult to try to point things out to people. It’s as if they think I’m trying to trick them into believing astrology or crystal balls or whatever else when I do. People wind up feeling unnerved as if I am shifty in some way. In the end, it’s just not worth it to bother and it may also be rude.
I don’t tend to wear make-up and when I do, I spend ninety seconds putting it on. I am sure people out in the world note this and have opinions but I’m grateful they don’t bother me with them.
If people can’t see a transit manifest in their life, it is probably because they are defended against it and if they are defended against it, there is probably a reason. I just know I stay out of other people’s business unless there is a specific request otherwise and even then I am cautious and I can give you an example why re: the make-up.
I recently met an image consultant. She was effusive and she had a lot of ideas about me; she was a natural at her job. And while I am sure everything she said was right and good and sound, I did not ask for her help and she did not consider my specific psyche when making recommendations so none of it penetrated or did me any good.
For example, I am not going to fix my hair. So if you are a hairdresser, I don’t care how good my hair would look it I fixed it, I am not going to fix it so if you give me anything but a cut I don’t have to fix… well you have just messed me up.
Bottom line, it doesn’t matter how good you are at something if you don’t know when to put the pedal down and in other cases, when it would be much better to back way, way off. Because not everyone wants their hair fixed or to know where every mole on their body is even if you could tell them. I much prefer to let things emerge organically and things do emerge organically.
Any other astrologers (or others in the counseling arts) have thoughts about this?