The other day I was writing (somewhere) about how a death of a central figure in a family often decimates that family. Regardless of how people become estranged, once you lose the connection to a person or persons and time starts to pass, the connection will dissolve.
I’ve seen this with power struggles or some other kinds of stalemate between siblings or friends. While you may never truly sever a blood connection, I think it’s a mistake to believe you can pick up the phone in five or ten years and put things back the way they were, after a long time has passed.
Relationships strengthen when you invest in them. If you pull out of a relationship and someone has fared without you for five or ten years, you should not be surprised to learn that your presence in their life is not that important.
With Saturn ready to leave Libra, I can’t emphasize this enough: Invest in the people you value. Maintain that bond.
Is there someone you are estranged some, when you know it shouldn’t be?