Elsa and Kathy – The Yin and the Yang: Sagittarius and Leo – Part One

I went out with Kathy the boy-girl last night and she is starting to see that she really is like a man. From my perspective this is! And with her third house (Gemini) packed with Sagittarius, what could possibly be more “interesting” than a different perspective?

So anyway, all that Sadge is yang, as is the 3rd house. But she also has a Leo Moon (yang) in the 11th house (yang). So you can see she is over the top on this front and in contrast to me – A super yin type, save my Mars Mercury conjunction which will definitely cuss you out and perhaps beat up your car with a bat, if sufficiently provoked.

Now I don’t think either of us would act so near our respective poles with other people. For example, if Kathy was with someone with more of a yang nature, you would probably see more of her yin side and vice versa with me. But as it is, when you put us together…well it’s just extreme. And she doesn’t see it, though she’s beginning to. Mostly because she constantly shocks me with her raging hard-on behavior and I simply have to comment. The first time I mentioned this was a couple weeks ago. We were on the phone.

“You’re such a man, Kathy. Jesus.”

She roared. “Oh Elsie, what do you mean? I’m not a man,” she said.

Being yin, I let it drop. But three minutes later, we were discussing the message board where I posted, which led her to my blog, which led her to contact me for a consultation. And it turns out she was in contact with another woman from that board…

“Yeah!” she said. “She’s jealous!”

“Jealous?”

“Yeah! Because we’re friends,” she said boastfully. “Because I live here and she doesn’t! I’m hanging out with you. We’re hanging out!”

I didn’t answer. I was just amazed.

“And I told her, that’s right! She’s mine!” she said all aggressively. She was shouting. “Elsie’s mine! I got her! I got her and you didn’t! So there!”

I snorted. Got me? What am I? Kathy’s conquest? Here I am, a notch on Kathy’s belt and who knew?

I laughed but I didn’t say why. Figured I’d clue her in later.

To be continued…

And what about you? Yin or Yang or both?
~ skip to part two

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Elsa and Kathy – The Yin and the Yang: Sagittarius and Leo – Part One — 11 Comments

  1. without analyzing it to death: yang.

    “Mostly because she constantly shocks me with her raging hard-on behavior and I simply have to comment.” is kathy’s ascendant near your mercury/mars? heh…

  2. Both. I bounce back and forth between the two all the time. I’m told it can be totally disorienting if you don’t know me. Got a great yang t-square going on with my gemini sun in the 11th, opposing Uranus & both squaring jupiter in the 9th (I credit that t-square with a lot of my drive to grab opportunities as they go by), but then there’s the packed 12th house in cancer. Back & forth & back & forth. I’m learning to deal with it, but like I said, it messes with the people around me sometimes.

  3. Hey Molly…just wanted to let you know.. I think of you often here and if we lived in the same city, I have no doubt we would hang out like bats out-a-Hell!

  4. Thanks Elsa & Kathy–

    Pardon me for getting weepy on your website. I totally get where you were coming from and I’m okay really.. Good lordy, I’m doing my Neptune transit, I feel my hormones surging a little and my pathetic-o-meter has gone through the roof today. It’s so over the top it’s funny… I had a lunch date with my mom today that I was looking forward to, and guess what… she forgot about it! My own mother!!

    Sure I’m disappointed, but if I step outside myself, I can laugh like hell about it.

    I’m Yang for sure in the right environment.. Most Aries like me are sheepish until we feel comfortable, then with a little encouragement the fiery ram comes to the fore. Kathy, do you think Elsa could handle the both of us?!

  5. Oh I’m mostly yang, but I can swing toward the yin sometimes. I feel more comfortable hanging out with the men than the women…unless their pretty yang themselves, and men I don’t like a really yang men…I prefer the yin ones…so I’m all mixed up! XD…what can I blame it on…a packed 1st and twelve house or me being a double aquarian with a scorp moon?

    Hmm…

  6. elsa your saying you a mercury conjunct mars person is talking astrological unreality and you know it or should know it as a greater than 10 degrees seperation is not a conjunction.

  7. Big bag of yang here. Luckily I live in a country where it’s o.k. to be a bit butch and agressive if you’re a chick. When I lived in Japan and Central America I was constantly being ‘hobbled’ by people scandalized by my behaviour. The attractive/acceptable women there are passive, slender, girly and demure. None of which is me 🙁

  8. “Now I don’t think either of us would act so near our respective poles with other people. For example, if Kathy was with someone with more of a yang nature, you would probably see more of her yin side and vice versa with me. But as it is, when you put us together…well it’s just extreme. ”

    For me, though I have no Libra, it’s weird. When I hang out with someone that strongly appeals to my water side (like a man with a Cancer Sun), I find myself cracking jokes, detaching, doing the Gemini thing. And when I hang out with someone on the other end of the spectrum, a Leo Sun, it’s like I’m dumping water on him.

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