Would you care to look more into important moon/Saturn transits in a child’s chart and to what degree the aspects involved affect the parents? e.g. if transiting Saturn opposes the natal moon in a child’s chart, would this affect the child, or the parents or both?
It’s common that a person has a Pluto transit to their moon and worries their mother is going to die. While that’s a possibility, it’s not a probability. It’s entirely possible a person have this transit and the mother not be affected at all. If you question this at all, consider that the mother might have died many years prior.
I realize you are talking about a child, presumably in custody of the parents, but I don’t think that matters. The transit belongs to the individual.
Specific to the Saturn moon transit, in a chart of the child, their mother may become depressed in that period. She may be a burden. MAY.
But it’s also possible that the child have their best friend move away, and they are just plain, lonely. The mother (Moon) might even support (Saturn) the child in this case. These things have to be looked at case by case.
As for parents being affected by what their children go through, there are a lot of variables and every single one of them count.
For example, is the parent detached, inattentive, preoccupied? If so, they may not be affected at all.
On the other hand, if the parent is enmeshed with the child or of the parent and the child have a lot of contact between their charts, they’ll have more of a shared experience.
Good luck. I hope this helps you sort this out.
If others want to share their experience or opinions, please do!