With Saturn in Libra, another theme I am seeing in consultations is women who are having to defend their relationships from an outside threat, usually an ex of their husband or boyfriend who contacts via facebook. Even if the man is not interested, it undermines the relationship and often calls for action.
“Well I like my way. I may be crazy but you’ve got to admit its one hell of a deterrent,” I told my husband, circa 2007. “Are you sure you want to screw around with my man? There are easier targets you know.”
“Most of the women who do this go for an easier target. It’s like rapists. They show rapists in prison city scene. Women walking along and they ask them who they’d target. Invariably they all pick the same woman. The gal with her head down and so forth. They want the easiest target they can fin so if you are looking for someone’s husband to screw, well that’s not me.”
“That’s not why men don’t cheat on you, P. It’s because you give them everything they could possibly want.”
“Well maybe I do. But that’s part of not being an easy target, don’t you think? I’m just saying I think a lot of these gals scan around looking for a man to target, subconsciously or otherwise and when they see mine they see me next to him and think – no. This is because it’s common knowledge you’re not going to be able to run your script if I’m involved. I am going to drive the ship right into the iceberg and let the chips fall,” I explained. “I wouldn’t do anything to the woman, you know. I’d give her the man for sure but I don’t know how manly he’s going to seem when I drop him on her doorstep like garbage.”
Do you defend your relationship? Why or why not?
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