It’s common to go on date after date after and have it go nowhere. People have a hard time partnering.
I feel the reasons are largely societal. They’re also hard to discern because they’re deeply buried. There’s also a lot of misdirection and many distractions in place. You’ve really got to want to get the info. The fact there is info to get is also hidden so you see the challenge here.
I finished writing on this topic for my class and realized I had more to say, of a general nature. I am already on record to state I feel that romantic love is a psy-op. I guess this post continues this earlier one:
I’m seeing that “marriage” or any committed relationship is a big ask. Think about it. A significant number of people are not interested in partnering. Many others have no earthly idea how to go about it. So let’s say you’re someone who does want to partner and does have an idea. Your task is to find someone in a similar position. So let’s talk about this “ask”.
To marry, you’re asking someone to stay with you through whatever. Just this alone should be assimilated. We’re always looking for what we want and what we won’t put up with; never what the other person has to deal with.
Marriage is very risky in that someone can take your money and your kids and just screw you over for years and years. At this point in time, only an idiot would marry someone of low character. This is far, far more important than how you look, even if the psy-op tells you otherwise.
The picture is of a “cruise to nowhere”, which is something that exists. You get on the ship, and sail around, never docking… until you wind up back where you started. This is how I see most of dating. If you see it too and you want out, start thinking about what you’re asking for when looking for a mate. It’s no small thing!
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