People got extremely involved in the Dark Heart piece, thank you! That was enormously inspiring and satisfying and I am back with my next angle.
Your comments prompted me to better define the personality I was trying to type and get insight into. One example I landed on over and over was the type of woman who finds another women to feel superior to. I used the example of a gal who might peruse the gossip pages and look at celebrity cellulite so she could feel superior.
Another example would be a gaggle of women in an office who laugh and mock another woman for her poor clothing choice. This is fairly common and made me think of my sister who can serve as a great example of a not-dark-hearted fashion conscious woman. My thought it that looking at the anti-bitch will give insight into the bitch??
If you have bad clothes my sister is going to know it. If you look ridiculous, she will know it and I have first hand experience with this on on many levels. The critical difference is she will not get off on it. She won’t look at you (or look down at you) to elevate herself. She is also not going to rush in and fix you when you’ve no interest in being fixed, however if you ask her for help or if she sees a way she can help you that is not invasive, she will do it.
I do the same thing on this blog that she does with fashion. I see things people might do to have a better life and I try to put hints out to they might find their way. It’s a kind to my sister saying, “this shade of red is good on you.” If she says that, the next time you put your pink shirt that looks like hell on, you might look in the mirror and thing, this should be red…
You see the freakish difference here. One type woman is going to try to put their energy under you so that could will be empowered. The other is going to watch you struggle and if possible make your struggle even worse. Based on this, we’re talking about Pluto here.
I mean, it’s more complicated than that. My sister and I are both Saturn Neptune types and we support you and you don’t even know it. But Pluto is also a deep healing and if my sister can get that pink shirt off you, she will. And if I can get you to quit jacking your life up – I will.
I just think the comparison here is stark. I wonder if yesterday’s thoughtful people might have some thoughts on this.