I’ve been dating a married man for 3 months, and it has become way too serious. For one, I thought it was a mere fling. But now I’m wondering if there is any future with the man? Is it really meant to be?
The problem is I am feeling so guilty to be betraying so many people by cheating with someone’s husband, but I cannot figure out how to end the relationship. Please help me! I am so in trouble.
Is there a future with this man? I don’t know. Do you want a lying, cheatin’ dog for a man? Considering you’re a Scorpio with Venus in Scorpio, I’m guessin’ no. I’m not going to get on your ass about this because you sound like you’ve got some scruples. And this guy is 10 years older than you and I imagine he’s got you a bit confused. I think he’s got you in over your head. Does that piss you off? I hope it does.
Here’s the thing. When you’re doing something that makes you feel like shit, this is your clue to stop doing it. You almost sound as if you need permission. You sound as if you need to be told it is okay to quit screwing this guy. Well, you’ve got it! You can decide right now to never take my pants off in his presence again.
With that decided, call him up right out of the blue, like this:
“It’s me. You know how I’ve been screwing you for the last three months? Well, I’m done now. I’ve changed my mind. Please don’t call me again.”
And if he calls you again, hang up! Because you just told him not to call you, and you owe this guy nothing. But you owe yourself, everything. You owe it to yourself to behave with integrity, and the sooner you begin, the sooner you will heal.
And don’t beat yourself up, okay? Just say “never again”. You’ve got plenty of Scorpio, and I’m sure you can make that stick.