Here I go into your un-comfort zone (see tag). But this is a very common phenomena. I’m writing about it so people who have experienced this know they have company.
A woman is just going along, dating or whatever. She may be in her 30’s. If a woman has stayed single all her life, by then she often has plenty of sexual experience.
I’m talking about women who go out and play and date around. I know there are some who do not. There are virgins in their 30’s. I know because I work with them all the time.
In whatever case, this other woman (and I have been one of them) is going along with the status quo, staying somewhat oblivious. It seems almost inevitable that eventually she winds up in someone’s bed where she is clearly being used.
The range of what can happen is vast. There are many scenarios. She may meet outright violence but more commonly something occurs the makes her realize she is part of something that turns her stomach.
A man might film her.
A man might flip her around like a piece of meat; handling her in a way that makes her know she’s an object.
You get the idea.
An experience like this is painful and humbling, never mind it can scare the bejesus out of you. People change their lives on a dime after something like this happens, I have seen it over and over and over. The person no longer want to take the risks they have in the past. It leads to deep transformation (Pluto).
Anyone know what I’m talking about? Has this happened to you or someone you know?